Most men who aren’t naturals at the game have one specific skill set that is totally lacking, at least from what I’ve noticed. They don’t know how to flirt!
What exactly is flirting? It’s a basic social interaction, how we show interest in a woman or vice versa. It’s necessary too, as the signs are needed to allow for future procreation.
Don’t laugh, just think about it… how did it come to pass that there are so many people on this planet?
It’s instinctive, but something is amiss for many men. There are social norms in regards to this that we’ll get into.
As well, we’ll look at approaches to flirting and how it can change the way we look at social interaction.
We essentially understand flirting in the negative, all too quickly. Say if you are dating a woman, and they flirt with another guy. I’d bet you’d notice that, right?
You need to flip that around and take a look at flirting when it’s happening in the positive.
I’ll get into greater detail soon. For now, a few tips on what to focus on in regards to the flirt.
First, understand that flirting is only a tiny portion of what you say. The rest is how you say it, your posture, and your overall appearance.
Now, take a look at what you are doing in regards to this. Are you focusing on what you are going to say next? Work on focusing what is going on around you.
By tuning in to what they say, you’ll become aware of what is happening around you.
Next, understand the tools you have for flirting, aside from your voice. Your body language, and your eyes. They play a critical part in your flirting, more so than any words you’ll be speaking.
You should consider how the woman you are flirting with is reacting. Many men try to look too deep into this. Others don’t pay attention at all!
So what is the right thing to do? Try keeping it simple. Does she look tense, or nervous? Back off for a second and tune in to it. If she looks open, happy, and is interacting with you, then you are on your way.
Tinker with these basics for awhile. They are VERY important, and if you can master them, you’ll have far greater success in the long run!
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